Dating was easier back in my 20s.
Physical attraction was the main factor in my decisions. I'd dive headfirst into relationships without thinking about the potential consequences.
As I grew older, dating became harder.
I am no longer willing to wing it because my level of tolerance for bull shit is non existent.
As we mature our standards for relationships become more discerning.
As they should.
So, what are some key factors to consider when choosing a partner?
Shared values & goals
Emotional compatibility
Trust & honesty
Physical attraction
Respect
When you know what to look for, dating becomes easier.
Lets look at 5 steps towards a healthier dating mindset:
Focus on self love & self worth - Cultivate a positive body image and embrace your unique qualities.
Define your boundaries & stick to them.
Develope resilience in dating - there will be rejection, adopt an attitude of "rejection is redirection."
Practice discernment - The ability to judge well & take it slow.
Have positive expecations - visualize the partner you want to attract.
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To healthier more loving relationships,
Christina "discerning" Kyranis